Boe Meyerson
Leader, Ethical Culture Society
of Essex County
New Jersey
Newsletter Column
What Now? (9/12/01)
As I write these words, the news of the Terrorist attack on the World Trade
Center is still pounding in my brain. It is not the subject about which I
intended to speak to you, but it bares some relation. As I witness this
historic and unprecedented attack on our land, I am sickened and shocked by
the loss of so many innocent lives. Not through all of World War II did we
ever suffer such an attack within our homeland. We were spared what Europe
and Asia had to endure. And now at the very height of our powers when we have
become the supreme military force on this earth, our previously impregnable
shores have been breached. Humans can go the moon and send probes to Jupiter
and plan a landing on Mars and calculate the age of the universe. But we
humans have yet to learn to resolve conflicts without bloodshed. Even as
human reason brilliantly moves to uncover nature's best kept secrets, human
efforts to secure peace are faltering throughout the world. Northern Ireland
and Palestine-Israel come most prominently to mind. Our nation can punish
those responsible and might even eliminate the political bodies supporting
this terroristic violence. Yet the world will never know peace and security
until its people learn the arts of peace. These arts need to be mastered and
enhanced by those who now resort to terror as well as those who do not. Now
more than ever are we challenged to devote our prodigious intelligence and
creativity to harnessing the mighty engines of the peaceful resolution of
conflict. Such efforts may extract just as much blood, sweat and tears as
military ones do, but in the end the peace achieved is more likely to prevail
over challenges into the future. I am not a pacifist and do believe that
there are times when military force is the only solution. Yet I believe that
we have done much too little toward laying the foundations of nonviolent
procedures, practices, and institutions. This is most notably true in our
educational system which devotes very little to teaching the arts of
nonviolent conflict resolution. What little is done can hardly compete with
popular media and the adoration of violence. It's Rambo all the way.
In the end we will either reason with each other or fight with each
other. The art of conversing with our enemies is not a simple skill. It
requires both intellectual and emotional discipline. It requires us to keep a
focus on our own requirements and at the same time be able to hear the needs
of our enemies. In this respect, military and nonviolent processes have much
in common. Both require enormous discipline and enormous courage. Both
require sacrifice and unwavering dedication. If only we had as many resources
and public institutions devoted to peace as to the arts of war.
Among the many fields of study which help to develop the engines of peace
is the ancient study of philosophy. This discipline began with the art of
dialogue. At its best it takes place between people with opposing points of
view. Sometimes one side wins. Sometimes another. And sometimes neither and
sometimes both. Nevertheless the process is a civil one despite intellectual
pyrotechnics. When the process works best, the contestants focus less on
winning and more on solving the problem facing them. In order to do this
people have to hold onto their emotions but not be overwhelmed by them. They
need to hold onto their own point of view but not be imprisoned by it. Most
of all, space must be left open for creative solutions. Unfortunately our
youth are ill prepared for this process. Conflict is more likely to be
resolved through violence or institutional control than through dialogue. Our
response to drug use among the young has been similar, alternating between
didactic lectures and force. In so doing we deprive young people of the
skills they need to intellectually and emotionally find their own way through
the snares of a culture that worships force, wealth and instant
gratification. We have failed to empower them.

Author: Boe Meyerson,
Leader, Ethical Culture Society
of Essex County,
New Jersey